Social Network

Salam sekali lagi buat  teman-teman dan pembaca semua,

Sedar tak sedar dah nak sampai hujung tahun dah! Sikit hari lagi semua orang akan celebrate tahun baru pulak. Saya? Rasanya tak celebrate kot sebab nak masuk lima puluh dah. Lagi pun dah senja-senja ni, perasaan nak enjoy macam muda-muda dulu dah tak ada lagi dah.

La ni saya lebih suka duduk di rumah, buat apa yang patut. Macam semua surirumah yang lain juga. Cuma sekarang ni saya isikan masa lapang dengan menulis blog, macam sekarang ni. Nanti kalau terlebih rajin buat buku pulak..saja pasang angan-angan. Mana tau..

Lain pulak cerita dengan anak-anak kita nowadays. Tambah-tambah musim cuti sekolah ni. Depa boleh duduk dalam bilik berjam-jam, buat apa tau? Twittering ataupun face booking ataupun tengok cerita Korea.
Masyaallah.. Tak tau nak cakap apa dah. Yang bagusnya kita tak payah nak fikir nak bawa bercuti kemana-mana, tapi yang tak syoknya sampai tak buat apa. Dok mengadap I Pad ataupun laptop depa sampai tak ingat dunia.

Jadi, apa pendapat semua tentang social network ni? Bagus ke tak? Kalau bagi saya bagusnya lagi banyak dari tak bagus. Kita ambik contoh facebook. Saya dapat ramai kawan baru dan saya juga berhasil berjumpa semula dengan kawan-kawan lama (yang dari sekolah rendah pun ada). Hebat dak?

Lagi satu, kita tau depa ada kat mana. Bukan tak tau zaman sekarang ni. Setiap hari kita dengar macam-macam cerita yang mengerikan. Anak-anak keluar pi kedai kat depan rumah pun boleh hilang atau kena culik.
Jadi, ini adalah salah satu dari kebaikan social network ni.

Yang tak syok nya, anak-anak ni dah almost jadi anti sosial. Ingat lagi dak dalam blog lalu, saya tulis Sara tak tau nak sembang dengan orang atau tak suka kalau ramai orang. Rasanya, inilah salah satu sebab nya. Dia jadi kaku atau segan nak sembang. Tapi kalau dalam face book bukan main lagi. Masalah ni bukan dengan anak-anak saja, kita yang dah senja ni pun sama kalau tak pandai bagi masa. Kita jadi ghalit (loghat kedah/penang untuk leka). Anak-anak ghalit satu hal, kalau kita pun sama, pakai tak berasap la dapur.

Jadi, apapun kita buat, macam selalu, jangan overdo it atau keterlaluan. Bila keterlaluan tu yang menyebabkan masalah lain timbul. Yang sebetulnya kebanyakan kita pandai mengimbang masa tapi ada masanya kita jadi malas atau rasa sedih atau frust, itu yang buat kita menghabiskan masa dengan cara yang tak sepatutnya. Ada yang setuju dengan saya?

Rasanya sampai sini dulu untuk hari ni, dah tak ada idea nak tulis panjang lebar.
In Sya Allah kita berjumpa lagi di blog akan datang.

Rose
10th.December '12


Hello again,
Like it or not, New Year is just around the corner. In a couple of weeks time, everybody will be celebrating New Year. Me?  Don't think I wanna celebrate coz come May next year I will be half a century years old. What to celebrate? Sounds like an old grandma.

Nowadays, I'd rather be at home, doing what other typical housewives do. Except, I fill in my extra time with writing blog. Who knows one day, I might be up to writing a book. Dream is something that we can do, doesn't matter if it became reality or stay a dream. ZZzzzz...

That is about me filling up my time. What about the children? Oh dear! At this very moment, Sara is watching  some Korean movie or listening to Korean all-girls group singing sensation. Either that or she'd be twittering. She'd be inside her room for hours every day. Good thing is we don't have to worry about going anywhere this school holidays.

So, what do you guys think about social networking? Good, bad, what's your vote? To me, we can use it to our advantage as it is beneficial if used wisely. Why! I found most of my old friends especially my elementary school classmates through this social network. Ain't that something?

Another thing, we know where they are at all time. Everyday, in the news or newspaper, we see young girls being murdered or raped in the broad day light. What a world to live in!So, by being in their rooms, they are much safer than anywhere else.

The bad thing is, they became anti-social. They refused to go out and get some exercise done or mingle with new people. They'd stick to their I-Pad like it's their life line. Come to think of it, not only young children were anti -social, we, the older generations are plunging our lives into it as well. But some of us did it because life has become too stressful or feeling bored and a few other reasons. Anybody agrees with me?

Try balancing it like we used to before these innovative applications found it's way into our lives. However much we reject it, it's here to stay. So, go along with it and enjoy. Just don't over do it.

Gotta go now. Have a good life out there.

Rose 10th.December '12